Your Choice

In life we have two choices:

1: Be successful 

2: Do not succeed 

Which one would you prefer? 

Today could be the day to make drastic changes to your life or everyday routines. 

Why wait? Why procransinate? Today is a new day to start fresh and make changes. 



Empowering One Another

Empowering One another does not cost a thing. Recently I have witnessed so many situations that have really made me question wether females have loyalty to one another these days and wether females really believe belittling or putting another female down is okay! Well let me just say it is not, and we as females need to stand together and show that we are powerful and we can empower each other. Ladies instead of being hateful, envious or jealous why not try and lift someone up or offer a helping hand, because we are stuck around such negativity in this world, people seem to only have negative things to say and do rather than trying to make a change and do positive things. Kicking someone when they are down is one of the worst things someone could actually do to a human, so the next time another female is down or worried or experiencing something that they may find difficult to deal with, instead of watching them struggle or laughing at their faults, think about how you would feel or what you you want in a time of need. 

Have a little patience 

Sometimes a little patience goes a long way. Someone very close to me has been feeling really down lately. Not feeling themselves, Feeling unmotivated and just generally feeling down in the dumps. They would constantly tell me they didn’t see a way out and they would always respond with a negative answer. I would always say ” THINK POSITIVE and focus on what really matters and you will see a change in your attitude” I spoke to this particular person today and I could hear such a change in their attitude, it was a really nice feeling to know I had helped changed their way of thinking. It just goes to show having PATIENCE & POSITIVE thinking and dealing with a situation in the right way can go a long way.

Focus on what you want! 

Sometimes in life, we forget what really matters and we start to concentrate on things that will add no value to our lives and we start to get stuck in cycles that are not particularly ideal for us. Focus on you and what you want in life and put all your energy into that, talking about something is not going to get you where you want to be, it’s ACTIONS you need to achieve goals. Remember YOU are in control of you own future and your own life, so instead of talking about something, take ACTION! 

Positive Thoughts Bring Positive Outcomes 

Sometimes in life when you are dealing with something that may be difficult to deal with, the answer is not always to get angry or upset but sometimes you just have to accept that you are going through that specific thing for a reason and just get on with it. I realise we spend so much time and energy on what we DON’T like in life and forget to concentrate and manifest what we actually do like. Regardless wether you are going through something, it is always a good idea to think positive to get a positive outcome and thinking negatively will only draw more negative situations to your life and believe me I have witnessed this first hand. 


It is never too late to make a change. Today is a new day, so make today count and strive for what you want in life. Sometimes situations and people hold us back from doing what we really want to do, you need to remember;  Who holds the key to your future? & Who is in control of your life? 


Believe In Yourself 

Believe in yourself! Believe in yourself! Believe in yourself! 
Say it again if you have to. Make sure you feel and believe this. Make sure you agree with yourself. 
For so many years I have doubted myself and doubted what I am actually capable of. I knew where I wanted to be, I just did not know whether getting there was possible. I constantly would argue with myself about what I wanted and how I would get there. I started to take small steps to achieving my goals but I recognised I would always fall back for some reason or even just become disinterested at that point. As time went by I was constantly angry at myself, especially when I saw others accomplishing things and getting to where they needed to be but I always felt like I was in the same position & that was simply because I did not BELIEVE in myself. I was too busy believing everyone else could make it and not myself which was my biggest downfall. I constantly questioned myself, Constantly doubted and from this came nothing but disappointment. It was only until I discovered what I actually wanted to do, was when I actually believed in myself and believed I would make it in life. I realised that all the times before I was not doubting myself, I was actually doubting the specific thing I was doing was not for me & I was right because now I’m on a path that I know was destined for me and I do not have one shadow of doubt in my mind. 
So the next time you doubt yourself. Try to remember it most probably the situation you are in making you unsure. So do what makes you happy and BELIEVE IN YOURSELF!